I admit it, I wasn't as drawn into this season of Mad Men as I was with the first two. I also admit that last night I watched the final episode twice, in a row. As close to perfection as one hour of TV gets.
It finally happened, Don's life completely crumbled. And he was called out by pretty much everyone around him for being the unemotional, detached, ungrateful bully he is. He could have lost them and he knew it. Knew that if he going to win this time, as he always does, he had to actually put himself out there, admit to them - and maybe to himself - how and why he values them. So he did, with Peggy, Pete and even Sterling. Even giving the nod to the squirmy Pryce. (Classic Sterling line - "You're not good at relationships because you don't value them.") They all may hate the way the Don Draper treats them (maybe not Sterling who could care less), but they still want to be noticed by him and crave his attention and respect, as much, if not more than he could stand losing them. Even in the end he had to give into Betty, but her, he had to let go.
Don's personal life may have ended - or at least it appears that way for now. But his business life is starting anew, and he may be on the threshold of creating something he actually wants to be a part of. Being forced to put into actual words what it was that made each of these people valuable, he's also empowered them, made them stronger (witnessed in Peggy's adamant, yet nonchalant - and hilarious - no to Sterling's request for coffee) and is a great set-up to the office dynamics in Season 4.
Don has always been alone and has never connected to anything, or anyone. But in the last shot, as he looked across the hotel room filled with the group chosen to be part of the new agency, he looked somewhat satisfied, like me might actually have found a a place that makes him feel at home.
Sometimes patience pays off. Slow start to the season, but a perfect finish.








